Jonah Hill, Boundaries, and ‘Being Controlling’ in a D/s Context
A quick topical write up of a conversation I had with a friend about Jonah Hill, boundaries and what it means to be controlling.
Tag: Dominance
RIP ‘Gentle Femdom’, An Outdated Term
'Gentle femdom' forces another false dichotomy on female dominance. Here's why we should let the label 'gentle femdom' rest in peace.
Appearance Is Not The Foundation of Female Dominance
‘You want me, but you can’t have me. You’re not worthy,’ whispers the latex-clad dominatrix stereotype with her over-lined red lips. Her power stems in the fact she is an [...]
‘Can I be your sub?’
This particularly inane question comes in two main variants; either in the opening message, or after a few questions about me, with very little effort to engage with my answers. [...]
‘Ask me anything’
I have been answering quite a large volume of messages recently, and I thought I would write some posts on the things which bother me most often, and why. I [...]
Due Deference: ‘Masculinity’ and Approaching a Domme
Having just written about how male submissives frequently sabotage any chance of successfully developing a dynamic with a domme through ‘pedestalising’ them – approaching them with platitudes about ‘service’, ‘worship’, [...]
The Distance from the Pedestal
Given the height of the pedestal we dommes are put on by the sycophantic hoards, it's no wonder we get a little cold.