Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential
Chastity is often framed as a must-have in femdom dynamics. Have a read and delve into why male chastity really isn't a femdom essential.
Welcome to E-Lust – a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers maintenance spanking, fucking machines (twice), prostate massage, and some insightful commentary on kinky themes in Dracula.
From this month, I will be adding my comments on each of the articles included in E-Lust, so have a read and see if something catches your eye.
Thoughts On…
Sex & Relationships
The Joy of Sex for Menopausal Women: How to Reignite the Flame – by the Buzz Vibe Team
This practical guide to menopause sex from the Buzz Vibes Team sets out helpful tops on how to keep your sex life sparkling, including the importance of a positive mindset, foreplay, and effective communication.
Home for the Polydays – by Laura Boyle
The challenges poly folks face during the holiday season go beyond the basic ‘who goes where at the table’ planning issues. Between balancing emotional ties and event logistics, and the complex art of blending old traditions with new ones in poly relationships, poly holidays are just as much about negotiating complex emotions and being mindful of everyone’s comfort level as they are about precise planning.
Laura’s advice? Communicate, plan ahead, and take the opportunity to forge your own special traditions. If you’re poly, have a read for some tips on making the festive season all it can be.
Kink & Fetish
Maintenance Spanking: Why and How To Add It To Your Relationship – by yours truly
A handy guide on maintenance spanking, including a very practical guide to adding it to your dynamic.
Books and Movies
Queer, Kinky, Poly Dracula And Its (Mis)Readings – by Miss Pearl
Miss Pearl critiques the common interpretations of ‘Dracula’ and the tendency to impose modern biases on its analysis. Have a read for a in-depth discussion of kinky, queer, and polyamorous themes in Bram’s Stoker’s famous novel.
Walk All Over Me (2007): The Celluloid Dungeon – by Peter Tupper
A interesting analysis of the Canadian comedy / crime thriller ‘Walk All Over Me’.
Sex Work
Censorship – by Theoz
Worth a read – Theoz discusses the rather worrying idea that Google is censoring sex worker websites from it’s search results starting from November 1st.
Come to Dubai Habibi – by Oz Bigdownunder
Oz announces an upcoming two week stint in Dubai from 12 November, featuring poetic tributes to his various muses.
Locktober Special – by Lady Phoenix
In her ‘Locktober Special’, Lady Phoenix discusses a month of denial with four relatively new chastity slaves.
Kink: Prostate massage – by Mina Fontana
Mina Fontana discusses her love of prostate milking.
On Promises – ?
A mystery, as the site is currently offline.
Facility X Dungeon – by Sandra
Sandra on her experience at the minimalist, industrial-styled Facility X Dungeon.
The F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine – Lady in Latex
The Lady in Latex takes a look at the F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine. She paints a vivid picture of this stylish sophisticated device and as an owner of the F-machine, I can very much vouch for the renown F-machine performance.
Erotica
Red Panties and Purple Passions – by Ramon Quides
Bedroom Eyes 30 – by Jerusalem Mortimer
Product Reviews
Beating Expectations With A Panty Vibrator – by A Leap of Faith
A Leap of Faith’s initial skepticism of the Panty Vibrator is won out by its surprising comfort and discreet play capabilities.
Review of the Joi Thrust by Honeyplaybox – by Liz BlackX
If you want to know more about the unique blend of thrusting and tongue flicking action of the Joi Thrust, have a read of Liz’s review.
The Hottest Vibe of the Year! See the Snail Curve in Action – by Carolyn Eagle
Carolyn takes a look at the Snail Curve, highlighting its dual motors and effectiveness for deep stimulation.
Review: Magic Wand Micro – by Girly Juice
A comprehensive look at how the Micro fits into the wider Magic Wand line and what makes it stand out
Midnight Menagerie Teufl – by Princess Previews
Princess Previews dives into the world of Australian indie sex toys with her review of the Midnight Menagerie Teufl, a fantasy dragon-like dildo.
The Best Fucking Machine to Buy in 2023 – by TigerLilly
Well, this would have been handy when I was buying a fucking machine. If you’re in the market for a fucking machine, do have a look – it’s a really handy run down of what’s out there.
