My Life & My Dynamic
Snapshot of My Dynamic: Latex Shopping
A snapshot of my dynamic: our little shopping trip to a Soho latex store, the purchase of a catsuit, and my thoughts on latex.
Snapshot of My Dynamic: Sunday Afternoon Reading
I often get asked what a 24/7 TPE dynamic looks like. While there are, of course, times I subject my sub to various brilliantly sadistic torments, the majority of time…
Making Him Ask for Punishment
Here’s a psychological experiment from fairly early on in our dynamic. ‘Turn your head,’ I said. He stared at me, side eyed and unmoving. I eyed him with mounting disapproval.…
On Sadism: The Smile
There is a smile I smile whenever I am in a sadistic vein. I can’t help it. It’s entirely involuntary. I can just feel my face doing it. I have…
On Mind Games
I have been fortunate enough to have the opportunity to explore some of the darker, CNC parts of D/s, which has included quite a lot of rather delicious mind fuckery.…
Vulnerability
Vulnerability is what, to my mind, defines submission. That is to say, it is the ingredient which elevates a series of acts, be they sexual, or otherwise, from a game…
Offering
As much as I enjoy forcing things, grabbing, pinning, digging my nails in, there is something special about when he offers himself to me. There is nothing quite as electric…