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E-Lust 167 – Maintenance Spanking, (Mis)reading Dracula and Fucking Machines

Welcome to E-Lust – a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers maintenance spanking, fucking machines…

Maintenance Spanking: Why & How To Add It To Your Relationship

A quick guide, covering the FAQs around maintenance spanking in D/s dynamics, including protocols, intensity levels, how to distinguish maintenance and punishment discipline and practical troubleshooting.

E-Lust 166 – Chastity, Multi-Orgasmic Men and AI

This month’s E-Lust covers why male chastity is not a femdom essential, male multiple orgasms and Bloom's AI. Have a browse and see what takes your fancy.

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Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential

Chastity is often framed as a must-have in femdom dynamics. Have a read and delve into why male chastity really isn't a femdom essential.

E-Lust 164 – Punishment, Personality and Penises

Welcome to E-Lust – a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers punishment, how to approach…

Effective Punishments for Subs: A Comprehensive Guide for BDSM Dynamics

A comprehensive guide to effective punishments for subs: from exploring the role of submissive punishment to a step-by-step on how to set effective protocol, this guide covers all the bases.

Punishment vs Funishment – An Important Distinction

Distinguishing punishment vs funishment is not just semantics. It's central to clear communication on a topic which is the backbone of power exchange dynamics.